Nigerian designer Zizi Cardow who reacted to report of a married Nigerian woman whose husband told to send out her teenage daughter from a past relationship because he is sexually attracted to her, has stated that not every woman is supposed to have kids or be married.
Zizi Cardow who further reprimanded women for staying in marriages that are very unhealthy for them, added that the society keeps saying men are scarce but that the truth is that there are men in the society but the quality of men women desire is what is lacking.
Read her post below;
”When it comes to marriages and what a man or woman do, I don’t really bother because it is their decision and they are adults and you must take the consequences that come out of it but when you involve your kids in it is where it gets me because these kids did not ask to be born neither did they ask for you to make some stupid decisions in your life. I am sick and tired of all these post people put up of somebody gets beaten up, gets stabbed. You get beaten up, you get killed because you want to. Don’t involve your kids in it. When you make stupid decisions that you want to get married because the whole nation is crazy about getting married, don’t get your kids involved in it.
Please my sisters, if you want to get married, think about it thoroughly. Don’t think about just the wedding itself. It’s a marriage, a life time decision. It is not just about Asoebi, caterers, slaying or having the best wedding.
Please women, if you are not ready for children, do not have them. I don’t know why the society is so pressured about people getting married and having children when half of the people that have children are not supposed to. Honeslty, not every woman is supposed to have children and not everyone is supposed to be married. Not every woman who has kids is supposed to be called a mother”.
Here is her video below;